Cosy Sundays In

Cosy Sundays In

I love love love love the weekend. More than anything. Iโ€™m always looking forward to Friday nights to roll into Saturday.

And Saturday rolling into Sunday has me bliss.

One thing I love about the weekend is how relaxing and cosy Sundays can be. I attend Church online. Light a candle. Do some yoga. Stay in a robe all day ๐Ÿ˜‚ and just be. I pick up a light romance book (hopefully rom com thatโ€™ll have me laughing my ass off) and just relax.

I scroll through Netflix to find something soothing or intriguing to watch. Weโ€™re slowly entering the Christmas season, so maybe a cheesy Christmas movie (but I wonโ€™t lie, Iโ€™m not there yet). So today, I watched Miss Bala. It was nice. Interesting, Iโ€™ll give it that.

Another thing I love to do is make time for my novel (I write fiction books ๐Ÿ˜…). Iโ€™m currently taking part in NaNoWrimo 2020 so itโ€™s easy to keep track of my word count. I plan writing sprints with other writer friends of mine and we just pump out words in an hour of no distractions.

So yeah, thatโ€™s my Sunday in a nutshell. I love relaxing just before the manic of Monday hits ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ๐Ÿ˜Œ

Alright, I have to go now. My uni coursework is calling my name and itโ€™s not going to write itself. (I wish it would).

See ya lovelies xx

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Simple Self-Care Practices to Add to your Daily Routine

Hey lovelies,

Recently, with the move to home working/schooling I have had to add certain things to my daily routine to check on myself.

Itโ€™s essential to look after yourself, especially if youโ€™re sitting at a desk and staring at a screen for a whole day ๐Ÿ™‚

  • 5-10 minute Yoga sessions

Okay — probably my most useful tip. Not only for getting your body moving but for exercise (WHICH YOU NEED!)

I do a few minutes of yoga and from searching on Youtube, I have the ones that are perfect for me.

I usually search up — morning stretch, night stretch, yoga for back, yoga for home working and so on.

  • Walks

This one is one of the most important, especially if you are sitting for the whole day. This would get you away from the screen and get you some fresh air (which is needed).

Now, even if you’re not a fan of walks, you can take a short one. I don’t like walks too much so I spend the first ten to fifteen minutes a day in the garden. Some fresh air and I spend some time with my thoughts. I plan my day and I usually feel great after.

Even if you don’t have access to a garden, just a few minutes of fresh air would be needed.

  • Skincare / Beauty Spa Time

I think this one is especially useful with the new normal — especially if you’re at home. I’m not the

I do this at least twice daily. Doesn’t have to be anything too special.

Things like:

Paint nails

Put on a mask

Do some makeup

Do some skincare

Light some candles

Take a hot bath

Have a shower

Dance around in a robe — yes I count this as beauty as well. I do this when doing my skincare routine.

Honestly, it’s just about having fun and relaxing. Sometimes I combine a lot of them together. Sit in my robe (that my friend’s gifted me), paint my nails, play music and light some candles. PERFECTION.

  • Watch an episode

So, I’m a series junkie!! I am always bingeing something — from Friends to Men’s Club to Power and don’t even get me started on K-dramas โค

I’m always watching something. I’ll put together a must-see series list soon….. no worries.

But this is one of the best ways to relax and de-stress. Episodes usually run from 20 mins to an hour. So watching an episode as a break from working. It’s a good breather in between lectures or maybe on your lunch break. ALSO, pro tip — don’t take breaks in the same place as your work space. Even just moving to the bed from your desk is a plus.

  • AND OBVS ….. read a book โค

Am I a little obvious that this is my favourite way to de-stress and relax? Oh well, I won’t deny what works.

This is one of the reasons I purchase or borrow hardcopy books. Sometimes, I just need to sit down in a corner and disconnect from the world. I know I can’t really limit myself to a time when reading *haha* but it’s a good de-stresser. Enter a different world and worry about their own problems….

How to avoid a sagging middle in your novel

How to avoid a sagging middle in your novel

You’re getting in to your characters and your story is forming itself by the chapter. You’re now at the middle of your novel and things seem to be dying out.

THIS IS THE WORST FEELING.

This can happen both to pantsers and plotters so no one is exempted. I’ve recently come upon this issue many times and it has caused me to put aside many manuscripts. In my current WIP, I hit this snag again and decided that I needed to do something about it ——– hence RESEARCH!!!!

Funny enough, I hate research when it comes to my law essays but with my manuscripts, it is a life saviour and I crave it and thrive in it.

1. Raise uncertainty about your character’s goals — in the beginning of your novel, you’ve made the focus on introducing us to your characters and their GOAL. The middle can focus on the first steps they take to reach their goal. You can either start them off as getting the hang of it and then throw in something to mess it up or vice versa.

If it is a romance novel, it may be when they actually go out or a scene to make them come into contact with the other person in a way they didn’t realise was possible. If it’s a friends to lovers situation, then it would be when one of them realises they have feelings for the other. Just throw in something that’ll keep us on our toes and interested.

2. Increase plot complications and character obstacles — this is the time to begin throwing in all the obstacles for their race. The hurdles and tyres and climbing walls should appear on the track. It could be subtle misunderstandings that lead to bigger problems or the discovery of a secret that makes them begin to question everything.

The ‘sagging’ middle is sometimes caused by insufficient development towards a climax. We need the grounds to shake and for the earth to quake (not literally haha) but we need something to throw us off balance.

3. Create sublpots that add interest to your main story arc — this one is something I do in all my writing. The middle is the best time to make the story more interesting. Subplots can give characters the knowledge or skill they need to achieve an aim, taking them one step closer to their goal. The same way interesting side characters makes a story richer, subplots do the same thing. Take your main characters on an unexpected adventure (maybe even with a side character) that helps give them clarity or a part-solution to their problem.

4. Stay focused on your character’s end goals — this is the most important one. When a middle is ‘sagging’, it is often that the direction and purpose is disappearing. One thing I would suggest is to go back and read the beginning to remember the GOAL. The whole point of the novel. At this point, you could create an alternate route to a different goal. This point only works if you are trying to teach your characters a lesson (maybe about happiness over work or something like that). But this is the time to refocus you and your charaters’ views on the goal despite whatever direction you decide to take the story in.

Hope this was helpful.

Now, I am going to apply these to my WIP, so I’ll speak to you later ๐Ÿ™‚

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How to hint at romance between characters

Hi lovelies

So I have reached that place in my novel where I am slowly hinting at romance between certain characters. Nothing strong yet as I want to build the angst up as much as possible ๐Ÿ™‚

I did a bit of research and found some really fun ways you can do this without cracking your brain too much. Some are more subtle than others while some are extremely out there. It all depends on the personality of the characters and the way you want to take the story.

1. Glancing at each other then turning away when they notice — this one happens so much in books and in movies that it’s a main one. It is one of the most obvious ones especially when the characters are YA but this can also happen in contemporary romance. It is very evident in my WIP as the characters are on opposing trains so all they can really do is look at each other.

2. Mirroring their actions — this one is a really cute one, especially when the characters don’t know it’s happening but the reader does. For instance, if he is twiddling his thumbs and she’s doing the same thing as well without realising it.

3. Finding subtle ways to touch — this one is a given for me and I always look for it in books whenever I am reading. For instance if they are sitting on a table and they reach for something. I know, I know, I’m a huge romantic and a sucker for sweet little things. To me, the subtle hints are the best more than the more obvious ones.

4. Disagreeing with every thing they say — I LOVE banter, who doesn’t? It also doesn’t necessarily have to be an ‘enemies to lover’ scenario for you to have some disagreement. Some open disagreement between the characters would be preferred. I love it when they argue over little things, not like a heated argument but a nice argument filled with smiles *haha*

5. Asks deeper questions to them and listens deeply — this one is really important and cute especially when they don’t really care about that thing they are talking. In my WIP, the characters are not in the same place so all they can do is rely on their conversations. It’s so sweet when they just stay and listen to the other person no matter what they are talking about.

6. Characters leaning towards the person they like during their actions — this one can obviously only happen when they’re in groups. This one is a key one as it’s an obvious one that they like each other. Then this can lead to them engaging in a conversation while forgetting the rest of their group ๐Ÿ™‚